How much do you love me

This question itself can cause shivers down the spine.It is without question,one of the most difficult questions to answer honestly.In Bollywood,love is everything and everything is love but in reality love is just a feeling that can even fade away in a day just like anger.

The debate on love can go on without conclusion because everybody has his own opinions.The older generation feels like love does not exist anymore and maybe it is all just lust.They reminisce when they used to write love letters and send them to their loved ones back then and waiting for her at the river just to get a glimpse of her clueless of whether she has received the letter or not.That came to a halt with developments in technology.

We can all agree that social media is making it harder for people to stay together with all the relationship goals and stuff.Things were just easier back then when everyone focused on their own personal lives without feeling the need to be in a competition with anybody’s whatsapp status or instagram stories.Now,people try to attain a soap opera kinda love where you can fight over a girl for years and decide to stay single for the rest of your life if you lose her😁.This forces people to fake love.

In the words of Jamie Lannister(a Game of Thrones character) ‘things we do for love’ he says as he pushes a young boy(Bran) out of a window off a storey building.Those who can relate to that story know that what he did showed no love at all except for the fact that he was trying to save himself the shame and all that came with it but I believe that he did that for love.He did it to protect his own and that is what love is all about and anyone who asks you how much you love him or her has got some trust issues that needs to be sorted out first because it is not healthy for a relationship.How someone treats you will easily show the amount of love he or she has got for you.

In life when it comes to love,you just have to choose someone who is gonna give you mental peace but that is never easy.The heart wants what the heart wants.When you follow your heart blindly you are either gonna have a lover for life or a lesson for life.Take things slow and never forget why you began in the first place.The realest love is your old folk’s love.Their love is regardless of your health,financial or physical situation.Choose wisely and when you decide to follow your heart take your brain with you.

P.S. Not heartbroken😁.

25 thoughts on “How much do you love me

  1. I bet that is true bro. Everyone has his opinion. On my opinion I will suggest that love is nothing but hormonal growth that one goes through in life.So when someone has trust issues then get married simple. As I say if love is lust it will not last longer. But it is formed on the basis of marriage it will be a mirror that will display both party’s respect and trust they have for each other.

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